The best way to find out if this approach is for you is to schedule a 15 - 20 minute consultation. Depending on your therapist’s availability, this consult may be held over the phone, via video, or in-person.
Kristi has had a passion for helping others her entire life. She was a hospice social worker for ten years, which were some of the most rewarding years of her life. Kristi currently enjoys mentoring women at her church through a program that identifies limiting beliefs and replacing them with empowering truths. Both of these things have changed Kristi’s perspective on relationships, purpose, and happiness.
At HWP, Kristi is devoted to working with couples. She is enthusiastic about uncovering the negative patterns that keep couples stuck and uses proven techniques to work towards creating healthier connections for more satisfying relationships. Kristi works with couples in various phases of life- premarital, marital, or those inquiring about future discernment of the relationship.
Kristi believes that therapy is an empowering, collaborative process done in a safe and trustworthy setting, and works from an eclectic theoretical perspective. She has an empathetic but challenging approach to her practice.
Kristi is equipped to help you master a positive mindset, maintain strong relationships, develop healthy coping mechanisms, create daily habits, make wise decisions with less regret, understand how your brain works, conquer limiting beliefs, navigate life’s transitions successfully, and help you find the joy in your life.
Kristi is a wife, mother, daughter, friend, bookworm, music lover, Jesus follower, blue-green temperament, and a 4w5 wing.
Masters, Clinical Social Work, University of Georgia
Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW)
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